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Divorce Preparation: Step 9 - Avoid additional debt or major purchases

We continue our series on practical steps to take when you are about to face divorce.  We are now to step 9 which is simple, but important:

Avoid additional debt or major purchases

This suggestion goes hand in hand with assessing how to handle the credit accounts, but deserves its own separate mention.  If a divorce is going to happen, you want to be conservative with the finances.  It is not time to be putting in a pool, buying a new car, or buying new furniture on credit.  You want to simplify the financial situation not make it more complex. 

Divorce Preparation: Step 8 - Address the Credit Accounts

We pick up with Step 8 in our series on practical steps to take when a divorce is imminent.  Step 8 is Assess how to handle the credit accounts.

If a divorce is imminent you do not want to be liable on any accounts on which your spouse has charging privileges.  It is not unheard of for an angry spouse, upon learning of a divorce, to go on a shopping spree.  Likewise, some lawyers may advise their clients to take out cash advances on joint cards to provide a cushion while the divorce is pending or to charge a large amount in lawyer’s fees on to joint cards.

Divorce Preparation: Step 7 - Assess the Financial Accounts

We continue with our series on steps to take when divorce is imminent.  We are on to Step 7 which is Assess the Financial Accounts.

If you’ve completed the prior steps in this series, then you already know what accounts exist and what the balances are. You need to make a decision about what to do with them.

Divorce Preparation: Step 6 - Establish your own credit

We are now on to the sixth step in our series on preparing for divorce.  The sixth step is: Make sure you have your own credit established.

If you do not have your own credit history, you should begin the process of establishing it now.  Obtain a gas card and a credit card.  You will need to have your own credit established after the divorce.  And, the sooner you begin the process the better.  So, don't wait until after the divorce.  You can start this process immediately.

Once you've obtained the accounts, you can imrpove your credit by using the cards and then paying them off each month.  At this point, it is important that you use these cards only to the degree that you can pay them off each month. Your goal is to establish a favorable credit history, not to run up a bunch of debt.

Source for Post:  Alabama Family Law Blog

Divorce Preparation: Step 5 - Document & Safeguard Personal Property

The fifth step in our series on preparing for divorce: Document and Safeguard Personal Property.

Inventory and photograph your household furniture, art, jewelry and other items of value. Inventory and photograph the contents of any safe deposit box or family safe your family may own. Also, photocopy any important documents in the safe or safe deposit box (if you did not already do so when collecting the financial records).

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Preparing for Divorce: Step 4 - Prepare a budget (or two)

The next step in preparing for divorce is to make two budgets (one that shows the situation in the house before the divorce filing, and one that is your estimated budget for after the divorce).

Most folks don't like to prepare one monthly budget, so I know I'm asking a lot to suggest that it is helpful to prepare two of them.  There is a method to the madness though.  It is important to know what it costs to run your household in its current state.  Equally important is to have an understanding of what your costs of living will be after the divorce. Let’s take each in turn.

Preparing for Divorce: Step 3 - Make photocopies of all the financial records

Continuing our series on practical steps to take when it becomes obvious that divorce is imminent, we are now on to step 3.  Step 3 is simple, but important.

Step 3 is to make photocopies of all of the pertinent financial documents.

As you gather the important financial documents, you should make two copies of each of them.  One is for you and one if for your lawyer.  Keep your copy in your divorce notebook or file folder.  It is important to keep a list of what documents you have, what documents you still  need, and which of them you have given to your lawyer.

Each case and each lawyer may require a unique set of documents.  In Florida, each party is required to comply with mandatory disclosure.  Some of the common documents required are:

• Income tax returns for at least 3 years;
• Most recent pay stub showing year to date income;
• 12 months statements on every financial account (including retirement accounts);
• 12 months statements on every credit card or line of credit; and
• Deeds for all real estate owned by either party individually or jointly.

Source for Post:  Alabama Family Law Blog

Step 2C - Determine Income (yours and your spouses)

Your lawyer will need documentation showing your income (if you work outside the home) and the income of your spouse. This is important for a number of reasons, but primarily for child and spousal support.

If your spouse is a salaried employee then your job is easy. Obtain a copy of the most recent pay stub and the most recent Income Tax Return. If you do not have access to either of these, you can obtain a copy of the Income Tax Return by requesting it from the IRS.

Complete Form 4506, Request for Copy of Tax Return and mail it to the IRS address in the instructions along with a $39 fee for each tax year requested. Copies are generally available for returns filed in the current and past 6 years. You can download the form at www.irs.gov.

If your spouse is self employed, then the job of determining their income becomes much more difficult. This is why discretion about your divorce plans is important. You may want to discreetly question your spouse (or if he has one, his business partner or his partner’s spouse) about income. You can attempt to get copies of bank account statements and financial statements of the business.

Another good way to prove income and assets of a self employed spouse is to obtain a copy of a loan application or net worth statement that they may have submitted to a bank or other lending institution for a loan.

Sometimes it is difficult to prove the actual income of a self employed spouse. At this point, gather the information you can. In the case of a self employed spouse, your lawyer will likely have to help you by using the discovery process to obtain and analyze additional information.

Source for Post:  Alabama Family Law Blog

Step 2B - Determine what you owe

We are still on Step 2 of Preparing for a Divorce.  Step 2 is "make an accounting of the family finances."  We've discussed determining what you own.  This step requires you to determine what you owe.

You will need to make a determination of all of the debts of the marriage without respect to the name in which it was incurred.The Judgment of Divorce will need to address who is responsible for the debt whether it is in your name, your spouse's name, or joint names.

I recommend that each of my clients obtain a copy of their credit report.  This allows you to make sure that you know of all of the debt that is in your name.  It is not unusual for a spouse to have incurred debt in the other spouse's name without their knowledge.  If that has happened, you need to know it before the divorce is final, not after.

There are many ways to obtain a copy of your credit report.  You can request a free copy once per year at www.annualcreditreport.com. 

Once you see what all debt exists, obtain copies of the statements on these accounts to determine the balances.  You may also need the statements if your spouse has made large or inappropriate purchases on the cards.

If you cannot find credit card statements on each of the accounts, contact the credit card company directly and request they send them to you.  You may want to check their websites as you might be able to make the request online.  I normally want my clients to get a minimum of 12 months worth. Check with your lawyer to see what he recommends.

Source for Post:  Alabama Family Law Blog