10/09/2016

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The Politics of Separation It's natural to feel a great fear about the possible emotional consequences for children of the house might result from the breakup of a romantic relationship or marriage. That fear, however, is disappearing as they grow and reach a certain level of maturity. People such as Jim Donovan would likely agree. This means that many couples choose to postpone the time of separation or divorce until the children reach a certain maturity in adolescence, without considering that even then an event of this magnitude can have a profound impact. The effects of a breakdown on the children as they grow older, their understanding of the reality around them is becoming increasingly becoming more complex in its relationship with the parents. Here, in a way, they stop being single parents to move to a position of trust and complicity, more typical of a friendship that link parent - child. Thus, increasing the degree of involvement of children and their perception of the emotions of parents, being in many cases overly concerned about those. This is so largely because it is too often what is shared with them. The frustrations, fears and even anger at the former couple eventually entrusted to some children who in many cases may be seriously conditioned her relationship with her other parent. Although it is logical that they want to know what is happening and the causes of the break, trying to offer support at all times is not advisable to use them as a means to vent. On the other hand, disputes and quarrels so characteristic of many processes end up seriously affect the children, encouraging them rebels and rogue behavior so characteristic of adolescence. Some aspects that should be very particular in these cases a separation divorce, when a traumatic rupture in respect of a...
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Chavarria Nowadays by the circumstances that we are living mainly in the economic world fear and doubt occur constantly, however there are ways to get out of this and become a person with excellent results in this area, discover more here. Fear: fear is not harmful is an emotion of natural calls, i.e. we were born with it and we have to preserve our lives so it is completely logical and natural, the problem is when are we going hand in hand, when we can no longer control it, there turns into fear and up comes to paralyze us. Here you share the steps to fear you don't drive. 1 Know where is, I repeat, everyone feels fear but there are people who can control and act well despite the, the key is to first find where and when I learned that fear goes beyond me. To do this we must do all a job search in your childhood memories especially, we must find that memory was the first in the that you felt fear and you could not control it and Yes can't find it then located memories as early as possible and which is very intense and that it arouses a strong emotion as it were happening right now. 2. Contact the emotion more intense to close to that situation and respect it, this is very important because unresolved emotion that keeps you tied to behavior is. 3 Find that I understood with respect to this situation, here must find a sentence or decree that I raised at the time that occurred the situation e.g.: Yes of a child suffered great fear at that moment perhaps thought I am small and helpless or do I need someone protect me, etc. 4. Once found the phrase and having done the...